Strange relationships!!

What is it that get two people together? And what is 'IT' that takes these two people one step further to matrimony?

First query has many answers..which is quite relative and varies from person to person. It can be anything from infatuation to lust, friendship to fooling around,some waves meet, some talks click, strangers become best friends, few move ahead into undefined relations hovering between friendship and commitment. All this is fine as long as the thin line is not crossed..the undefined territories..

With the onset of undefined terms in a relationship comes the undefined expectations..one gets so tangled in it, neither can they break free nor are they sure if they want to break free. One finds all love, happiness, solace, company in the other but is still not sure of moving ahead.. They remain in this no mans land for ever..

There are some others who are aware of what they want in life. They have decided on their choices and are not afraid to go ahead and tell the world about it. They fight the world as long as their loved on is standing hand in hand beside them.

Its not that there is no intersection samples between the non commitment ones and the pro commitment ones..ofcourse there is. The question is what is the one changing factor which makes the anti commitment species pro commitment.

Is it because they found that special spark in this partner which they dint find in the undefined domain partner?

Is it that there were no choices left. Had to go for it as it was the last and best choice available?

Is it because external factors forced one into it?

Are there other reasons?

I know of people who question themselves everyday on what went wrong and a few lucky ones who thank God on something which went right!! While together, there's still miles of distance to be covered between two people in the same room. I know of people who have married the one they love finding themselves stuck with unapproachable partners..I also know of those souls who communicate without speaking a word..

Life throws upon you so many surprises, love being the most surprising one of all.. Am in love and am happy to be so..as long as I am happy..I will continue to remain in love!!